Asari Dokubo Sparks Debate With Marriage Counsel to Daughter

Former Niger Delta militant leader and traditional ruler, Mujahid Asari Dokubo, has made headlines after sharing strong words of advice to his daughter on her wedding day.
During the ceremony, Dokubo charged his daughter to devote herself completely to her husband, stressing the importance of submission in marriage.
“With all your heart and everything in you, be totally submissive to your husband,” he said, while giving her hand in marriage.
His statement has sparked mixed reactions online, with many describing it as a reflection of deep-rooted cultural and religious values in Nigerian society, while others argue that such advice reinforces patriarchal expectations of women in marriage.
Asari Dokubo, who is known for his outspoken personality and strong cultural and religious identity, explained that his counsel was based on traditional teachings and spiritual principles, adding that mutual respect and understanding remain vital for a lasting union.
The wedding was attended by family, friends, and dignitaries, with videos of the moment now circulating widely on social media.