Solomon Buchi Advises Men Against Marrying Career-Obsessed Feminists Without Family Values
Nigerian writer and social commentator Solomon Buchi has advised men against marrying feminist women who, in his words, prioritize career over family values. In a viral post on X, he praised businesswoman Ibukun Awosika for balancing a thriving career with her role as a wife and mother, contrasting her with what he described as “Twitter feminists” who reject traditional marital roles. His comments have sparked debate online about gender roles, feminism, and modern relationships.
Writer and social commentator, Solomon Buchi, has stirred conversation online after advising Nigerian men to be cautious about marrying feminist women who, according to him, prioritize career over family.
In a post shared on X (formerly Twitter), Buchi referenced the life of Nigerian businesswoman Ibukun Awosika, highlighting her ability to balance a successful career with her family responsibilities. He praised her for being married for 35 years, respecting her husband, and remaining committed to family life while thriving professionally.
According to Buchi, Awosika exemplifies what he considers a healthy blend of ambition and traditional family values. He contrasted this with what he described as “traumatised Twitter feminists” who, in his view, disregard traditional marital roles and create friction in relationships.
His post reads in part:
“Nigerian men, stop settling for career-obsessed feminist women who have no family values. Ma Ibukun Awosika is one of the richest women in Nigeria, happily married for 35 years, and still believes in family and noble womanhood... Marry one of these traumatised Twitter feminists who want to prove a woke point in marriage, and you have a lifetime of agony. Marry a family-oriented woman, not a bag of trauma and extremism.”
Buchi’s comments have sparked mixed reactions online, with some applauding his stance and others criticizing it as reductive and dismissive of modern feminist perspectives.
