I’m Still Learning to Live Without Him”: Regina King Reflects on Life After Losing Her Son Ian Alexander Jr.
Award-winning actress and director Regina King has always captivated audiences with her powerful performances, but recently, she’s moved the world with something far more personal—her strength in the face of unimaginable loss.
In a rare and emotional interview, King opened up about her only child, Ian Alexander Jr., who tragically passed away in January 2022 at the age of 26. Speaking with raw honesty, the “One Night in Miami” director shared the depths of her grief, the beauty of their bond, and how she’s learning to navigate life without him.
“Grief is a journey I never asked to take. But I carry him with me in everything I do.” Regina King
Ian, a talented musician and DJ who performed under the name "Desduné," was Regina’s pride and joy. She often described him as her “guiding light” and the center of her world. Their bond was more than just mother and son—it was a friendship built on mutual respect, creativity, and unconditional love.
In her interview, Regina reflected on some of her favourite memories with Ian—from music sessions at home to quiet conversations about life, love, and purpose.
“He had a smile that could light up the darkest room. He taught me how to love louder, deeper, and without fear.”
Losing a child is an unimaginable pain. Doing so in the public eye is a burden few can relate to. But King has chosen to share parts of her journey, not for sympathy, but to shine a light for others who may be grieving in silence.
She emphasized that while the grief never truly fades, she finds moments of healing through her art, her family, and the memories she holds close.
“There are days when I still expect him to call. And there are days when I feel him walking beside me.”
Since Ian’s passing, Regina has quietly worked behind the scenes to honour his life and artistic legacy. From supporting mental health awareness to amplifying messages about suicide prevention, she’s turning pain into purpose, step by step.
Many fans have also celebrated Ian's musical talents posthumously, sharing his songs and messages of peace and creativity.
Regina King’s openness is more than a celebrity sharing her sorrow; it’s a testament to the strength of a mother’s love and a reminder that grief, though deeply personal, is something many silently endure.
Through her vulnerability, King reminds us that healing is not linear and that memories can become both a burden and a blessing.
“I’ll always be Ian’s mom. That will never change.”
